I enjoyed reading Native Speaker (1995) by a Korean-American novelist Chang-rae Lee a couple of years back. Not that I identified myself with any of the Korean-American immigrants portrayed in the book, but that some of the conversations were quite alive. One of my favourites, which I still remember and often mention, goes like this. One day Henry Park, the main character of the book, was chatting with a Caucasian colleague of his, Janice. She said, “[…] There were so many Asians at Berkeley. In fact all of my friends were Asian. There wasn’t anyone else. All my three boyfriends in college. Actually, they were, in a row, Chinese, Japanese, and Korean.” Our rather reticent Henry only asked two: “What were their names?” and “Which one did you like best?” Janice immediately asked back, “How come every Asian man I mention this to has to ask that?” Henry then casually added, “We’re competitive.”
Non-Asian readers of my blog wouldn’t probably find this scene particularly sharp, but I am certain that anyone from one of the three countries will see what I mean, for one reason or another. In fact, I occasionally find myself wanting to pose such a question in similar situations – from food or films to mobile phones. So, what I am trying to say by all this is simple. I am annoyed by the fact that everyone calls it Chinese New Year’s Day. It’s ours, too! It’s a New Year’s Day for all the countries sharing the lunar calendar!
Hmmm, in any way, it’s the year of the pig, a symbol of good luck and prosperity. This time, it is a golden pig year, which is even a bigger deal as it comes once in six decades. Wishing all of you the best. (The lady pig in the photo below is one that I have had my eye on for a while at a shop on the high street. 🙂 )
http://www.echonyc.com/~petit/newyear/noplugin/koreannp.html
LikeLike
I have friends from all three places and this question comes up time to time.. mainly when we are talking about the respective cuisines. Happy new year to you.
LikeLike
Ah, the cuisines, don’t get me started. 😉 Even a comparison of the chopsticks usages and etiquette alone should deserve a separate post.
Happy new year to you, too!
LikeLike